BACKGROUND.
I was told by my mother just when my firstborn turned three months old that when I was a child, playing has been my way of escaping her and socializing with our neighbors. I was never blessed with a brother or a sister (I'm the only begotten daughter of my parents), that is why having a moment each day to play with my cousins was my comfort zone.
I was told by my mother just when my firstborn turned three months old that when I was a child, playing has been my way of escaping her and socializing with our neighbors. I was never blessed with a brother or a sister (I'm the only begotten daughter of my parents), that is why having a moment each day to play with my cousins was my comfort zone.
Now that I am already a mother, I do realize that playing is an essential part of kids' learning and development. Through the book "What to Expect the First Year", I knew that the simple peek-a-boos, clapping of hands, jumperoo baby exercises and singing of itsy bitsy spiders with my kids do enhance their socialization skills aside from exercising their motor skills. Of course, being a mother of two also educated me that "playtime" for Echo (22 months old) is different from my little girl Army (4 months old). Echo now loves ball games, dancing games, shape sorting, horseback riding and all arcade kiddie rides.
My son also loves playing with other kids of course. I saw his need of socializing with toddlers like him when he was about 16 months old, just prior his operation (God Heals: Echo's Journey Towards Full Healing). I hate to admit it but before, Echo had a "mine" nuance when it comes to his toys. There was also a point where he became possessive with his stuffs. He loved having kids around him but what he did is that he doesn’t let other kids touch his things. They were just there watching him play. What my husband and I did is that we brought him to some neighbors' house who have babies and just let him play and interact with them and since I do belong to a mommy group (The Mommy Avenue), I make it a point that I bring him from time to time whenever we conduct EB in order for Echo to meet and greet new set of baby friends as well. From then on, we saw progress. Echo learned to share his own toys aside from gaining new friends.
Meanwhile, Army loves playing peek-a-boo and giggling games with her kuya (older brother). Surprisingly, at 22 months, Echo knows how to make her little sister chuckle. Army is now using her kuya's lamaze rattles and also loves having talks (as if her words are already straight) with us. I could not even fathom that she is a pre-emie baby.
In my perception, when we define the word "play", the approach should be holistic. It must also hit the important parts in a child's development which include motor skills, social skills, language skills and other intellectual skills such as ingenuity and problem solving skills. Toys also take part in our child's learning and development. On the other hand, not all toys are good to our kids. So as parents, we should also be heedful then on what toys to cater to our children.
My son also loves playing with other kids of course. I saw his need of socializing with toddlers like him when he was about 16 months old, just prior his operation (God Heals: Echo's Journey Towards Full Healing). I hate to admit it but before, Echo had a "mine" nuance when it comes to his toys. There was also a point where he became possessive with his stuffs. He loved having kids around him but what he did is that he doesn’t let other kids touch his things. They were just there watching him play. What my husband and I did is that we brought him to some neighbors' house who have babies and just let him play and interact with them and since I do belong to a mommy group (The Mommy Avenue), I make it a point that I bring him from time to time whenever we conduct EB in order for Echo to meet and greet new set of baby friends as well. From then on, we saw progress. Echo learned to share his own toys aside from gaining new friends.
Some of Echo's friends from The Mommy Avenue/Avenue for Mommies Online |
My kids Army and Echo <3 |
As I have read from National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC), safe toys for our kids are:
- well made
- painted with non toxic and lead free paint
- shatter proof and,
- easily clean. (excerpt from Good Toys for Young Children)
Likewise, NAEYC teaches us that although there are a lot of varieties of toys, there are appropriate toys for every age. There are toys that are intended for young infants, older infants, one year old, toddlers, and pre-school and kindergartens.
As my children grow each day, I know that as a mother, I am still no expert and that I still have a lot to learn; that is why attending some parenting and baby rearing talks became part and parcel of our mother-baby-family activities.
This June 16, 2013, the Richwell Club through Fisher Price Joy of Learning Campaign is inviting us all, to be part of their workshop entitled, "The Joy of Learning", which will be facilitated by no other than the "Chief mum" of MumCentre, Miss Carie Lupoli. Miss Carie Lupoli is an expert in the field of special education in the United States and is actively involved in speaking engagements in connection with quality education and improved parenting.
THE WORKSHOP.
When. The Fisher-Price brings us the "Joy of Learning" Workshop by Miss Carrie Lupoli on 16 0900H-1500H (9AM- 3PM) June, 2013.
Where. The said Parenting Workshop will be held at Crowne Plaza Manila Galleria, Ortigas Center, Pasig City.
What. The main topics to be discussed in the said workshop include:
- The Roles and Responsibilities of Parenting,
- Understanding Developmental Milestones,
- How Children Learn Best, and,
- Age Appropriate Play-based Ideas for Optimal Growth and Development
Who. The target audience of this workshop are parents in order to understand the importance of the role they play in their child's development.
Likewise, it is also advisable that both parents attend as much as possible. Caregivers and adults who are often left at home with the kids are also enjoined to attend.
- well made
- painted with non toxic and lead free paint
- shatter proof and,
- easily clean. (excerpt from Good Toys for Young Children)
Likewise, NAEYC teaches us that although there are a lot of varieties of toys, there are appropriate toys for every age. There are toys that are intended for young infants, older infants, one year old, toddlers, and pre-school and kindergartens.
As my children grow each day, I know that as a mother, I am still no expert and that I still have a lot to learn; that is why attending some parenting and baby rearing talks became part and parcel of our mother-baby-family activities.
Photo Courtesy of Miss Carrie Lupoli on Twitter |
THE WORKSHOP.
When. The Fisher-Price brings us the "Joy of Learning" Workshop by Miss Carrie Lupoli on 16 0900H-1500H (9AM- 3PM) June, 2013.
Where. The said Parenting Workshop will be held at Crowne Plaza Manila Galleria, Ortigas Center, Pasig City.
What. The main topics to be discussed in the said workshop include:
- The Roles and Responsibilities of Parenting,
- Understanding Developmental Milestones,
- How Children Learn Best, and,
- Age Appropriate Play-based Ideas for Optimal Growth and Development
Who. The target audience of this workshop are parents in order to understand the importance of the role they play in their child's development.
Likewise, it is also advisable that both parents attend as much as possible. Caregivers and adults who are often left at home with the kids are also enjoined to attend.
How. All mommies and daddies may attend the workshop at a minimal rate of Php 1,000.00! That is already inclusive of snacks, lunch, goody bag and of course, a chance to win big raffle prizes!!!
You may register at www.richwell.net/fisherprice.
PROMO/GIVE-AWAY.
Fisher-Price is known not only for catering quality baby products but also with its generosity. Yes! You got it right! Fisher-Price is giving out FIVE (5) Free Workshop Tickets! There will be two parts for this give-away:
- Rafflecopter (found at the bottom of this blog post) and,
- Soldier Mom's Corner FB Fanpage trivia questions.
I would usually give the basic toys such as wooden blocks, musical toys and other role playing games because it enhances their creativity and imaginative minds.
ReplyDeleteGadgets, maybe after 2 years old or older. I want my daughter to experience socializing with real people and enjoy bonding moments w/ family and not the computers. We'll orient her as soon as she got curious about somebody else's gadget.
I give my kids age appropriate toys, like for my toddler, I give her developmental toys that enhances gross motor development, imaginative play, promotes analytical skills and emotional development. For my teen, I give him toys that he can use for exploration and experiments like magnets, gears, and building blocks
ReplyDeleteI'd love to attend the workshop, SMC! :D
ReplyDeleteI prefer to give my son educational toys because for me it enhances more his thinking.
ReplyDeleteI am not so sure when is the right time to introduce kids to gadgets because it may differ as per necessity of the child but maybe only until in his schooling age.
Gigi Beleno
giay0422@yahoo.com
I usually give my baby Sophie the Giraffe for his teething and a rattle to keep him occupied. I would like to wait until he is 2 years old before introducing gadgets.
ReplyDeleteMark Keshniel Mendoza
kahitano56@yahoo.com
I buy my son toys that I think he will learn a lot from. He loves playing with balls now, and that helps him with coordination. He plays with book puzzles (alphabets and numbers), wooden blocks, crayons and paper, and of course, cars.
ReplyDeleteMaybe at age 4 or 5, he can start playing with electronic gadgets.
Theresa Cruz-Escaros
drterecruz@yahoo.com
I give my son educational toys, musical toys for his motor development.
ReplyDeletekares bermudez
kares.bermudez@gmail.com
Hello. I really like your blog about toys. I really agree that through playing can build the child's special skills. :)
ReplyDelete1. What types of toys do you usually give to your children? Why?
I'm a first time mom and I'm expecting a baby boy this July 2013. The kind of toys I would probably give to my newborn baby are the toys for looking, listening, sucking. Which also have bright primary colors like red, blue, or yellow and it should be light, soft and easy for my baby to handle. Because I want him to discover how to use his hands, feet, eyes and most of his senses. :)
2. At what age do you think children must be oriented to gadgets? Why?
I would probably introduce the gadgets to my baby boy when he turns 5 years old. Because I want him to experience what the 90's children were playing. I want him to enjoy his childhood, play with other children in the playground, and explore the outside world. Not to live in a virtual world.
Plautila San Luis-Wang
plautilawang@yahoo.com
I usually give my child instruments, shape sorter, balls & wooden blocks to give him a variety of activities & enhance his development.
ReplyDeleteI would probably allow him to use gadgets at the age of three.
Jeriel De Jesus
k_e_s_h_16@yahoo.com
What types of toys do you usually give to your children? Why?
ReplyDeleteEducational/musical toys so it would contribute to his development.
At what age do you think children must be oriented to gadgets?Why?
7 years old so he is matured enough to handle gadgets.
Esperanza Mendoza
espie0717@yahoo.com
Musical instruments so he could learn to play them early.
ReplyDeleteI think about 3 years old.
Marie Keshleen De Jesus
kesh_mendoza@yahoo.com.ph
Sporty toys because I am sports-minded.
ReplyDelete2 years old.
Rolando Mendoza
espie_mendoza17@yahoo.com
What types of toys do you usually give to your children? Why?
ReplyDeleteI usually gave my son a puzzle and blocks.To develop his mental skills.
At what age do you think children must be oriented to gadgets?Why?
I would like to wait until he is 7 years old before i introduce him to gadgets, because i like my son to enjoy his childhood by playing outdoors.
Kin Buenconsejo
kinbuenconsejo@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteI usually give them educational toys, to help improve their skills and development
I must say, by around 6 years old and above. early exposure to gadget can cause delay in a child's development.
Allysa Pascual
allysapascual@gmail.com
Colorful rattle.It attract babies more for it's sounds and colors.
ReplyDeleteAt the age of 5 years old , we can start to orient our kids to gadgets, but still,With their parents guidance
Kyle Buenconsejo
kylebuenconsejo19@gmail.com
I give my daughter educational toys to foster her learning development. Gadgets may be introduced for grade-schooler who can be taught how to handle it and how to manipulate and learn at the same time with proper guidance.
ReplyDeleteIrene Española
arielle_meg@yahoo.com
I give my kids varied toys: puzzles, blocks, pretend play sets among others. I believe that gadgets, which can decrease children's attention span, should be introduced at around age 6, and they should be used in moderation.
ReplyDeleteZendie Magistrado
magidie.zen@gmail.com
I give my baby puzzle, wooden and musical toys.
ReplyDeleteI will orient her to gadgets at around 2 years old.
Edel leonsua
atty.edel@yahoo.com
What types of toys do you usually give to your children? Why?
ReplyDeletei gave my daughter a musical instrument for her to appreciate and learn about music and also to boost her brain motor as well.
At what age do you think children must be oriented to gadgets?Why?
i guess at age 1 year old is ok but in supervision of course, So that she can learn early age.
amihan april almarinez
aprilvillanueva2003@yahoo.com
I give her toys with texture and sound to stimulate her sense; also, bigger toys so she doesn't swallow them as she loves putting things in her mouth!
ReplyDeleteChildren should be oriented with gadgets when they are two, under adult supervision. We allowed our daughter to play with gadgets at around 1.3 years old and I think that was too early! :(
Rocel A. Villasis
rocelalba@yahoo.com
The toys I usually give my son are educational toys and most of the time something with music/sounds as he reacts well with such toys.
ReplyDeleteIn terms of giving gadgets, I think around 3-4 years of age under adult supervision as there are still things he may not understand especially if the gadget has internet connection.
Edna Dela Carsada
erdelacarsada_04@yahoo.com
My kids play the usual toys children play. Though I may have introduced iPad at their very young age, my main objective is for them to learn in a fun way. But I limit usage so they would not rely so much on it.
ReplyDeleteSella Goden
sellagoden(at)yahoo(dot)com